How should we shape our kids' identities?

Jul 14

Both our identities and our kids’ are constantly being shaped; how can we ensure that they are being shaped by the gospel and not the world’s ideals?

Shaping our kids' identities begins with identifying our goal: that they would grow into those who know Christ and live their lives in him. Then, their participation in church, our example in the home, and our loving presence with them will reinforce that identity, enabling them to resist the temptation to conform to culture.

Kids' Questions

Talking Points: How Should We Shape Our Kids' Identities?

Though it increasingly feels as if parental influence over their childrens’ identities is under siege, nothing has a more powerful impact on their worldview than how their parents love them and live their lives with them. How should we approach this enormous responsibility?

Key Questions: How Should We Shape Our Kids' Identities?

Answers to the questions: Isn’t it wrong to indoctrinate kids? Shouldn’t we give them the freedom to choose their own beliefs? What if I don’t feel like my faith is strong enough to influence my kids well? Can’t I rely on the church, youth group, or Christian school to shape my kids’ identity?

Sample Discussion: How Should We Shape Our Kids' Identities?

A sample of how to talk to our kids about shaping their identity. How and why do we as fathers seek to shape our kids into the image of God? Like liquids, we are all shaped by the contexts we’re placed in. But through the church, our homes, and our lives, we can be used by God to give our kids a solid faith.

Recommended Resources: How should we shape our kids' identities?

A curated list of some helpful articles, podcasts, and books on this topic for those who want to explore it further.

Graham Thompson

How should we shape our kids' identities?

Both our identities and our kids’ are constantly being shaped; how can we ensure that they are being shaped by the gospel and not the world’s ideals?

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Talking Points: How Should We Shape Our Kids' Identities?